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    6/4/2006

    即将离开

          距离正式毕业只有最后半个月了,也就是说再半个月我就得离开这个生活了四年的学校居住了四年的城市。虽然曾经大声宣布毕业后决不留在上海,曾经叫嚣我有多么多么不喜欢财大,可当离别真的近在咫尺,才发现还是有些不舍。
          心理学上人际吸引的因素之一是彼此的熟悉度,人与物之间大概也是如此吧。四年的时间说长不长,说短也不短,我也已经从1字头跨入了2字头的行列了。四年前和老爸老妈一起来报到的情景还历历在目,怎么会就到了说再见的时候了呢?大概是否认的心理防御机制在起作用,我每天还是准时起床去图书馆自习,到晚上九十点回寝室,洗漱睡觉,仿佛毕业还很遥远。
          其实心里明白,时间不多了,于是计划了一箩筐要去探访的地方:多伦路文化名人街,上海琉璃工房琉璃艺术博物馆,徐家汇天主教堂,松江影视城,孙中山、宋庆龄、毛泽东、蔡元培、鲁迅等等人的故居,宋家花园,周家花园,陈纳德陈香梅蜜月小屋,洋山深水港,崇明岛森林公园,还有已经改建为各种创意工作室的二三十年代的工厂厂房……
          四年了都没有想去好好看看这座城市,偏偏就是要到快离开时才急于想去了解它的一切。快要失去时才知道珍惜曾经拥有的,这是我们都有过的经验,而且不止一次体验过。

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    DIwrote:
    但是离别时珍惜的心情会让你懂得很多!
    June 8
    liang tangwrote:
    其实你提到的那些地方大都是被媒体宣传出来的
    June 6

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